Wednesday, December 23, 2009

MIA

Everyone I have been MIA because Taylor cheated on me and dumped me for her. 4 years down the drain, I have never been more blindsided in my life. This was the day after Halloween and as you can imagine I have just been coping... I just wanted everyone to know. And now the jerk is still with her but trying to get back with me! I can't believe men...ugh. I wish you all a Merry Christmas and Happy New Year and sorry for the bad news but I wanted to share it. I'm sure some of you can relate. I miss you all and I miss blogging and when I feel better I am going to start again. Love Allison.

25 comments:

Lisa said...

I am so glad you could share. It helps to get it out. It is hard to do happy things when you feel so bad. I hope you will be able to enjoy Christmas with your family. Please do try and get over him once and for all. If you don't make a clean break you won't be able to make you happy, AND that is all that is important.
Merry Christmas sweetie!
Hugs, Lisa

bugsi033 said...

Been there, done that! Mine was after 23 years of marriage. Don't look back! Enjoy being a single chick with lots of possibilities ahead of you.

Cindy Shea said...

OMG! I am so sorry to hear this Ally :( The fact that you are wanting to talk about it and share your pain says that you are on your way to healing from this soon. I too know how it feels to give someone your best years only to have it mean nothing to them in the end as it happened to me as well but in my case he cheated with another man!!! I was devastated, overwhelmed and scared for my health but I also learned a very valuable lesson at the same time. From that day on I decided never to become intimate with another man unless he was comitted to me in marriage as it should have been. I know it sounds old fashioned but by doing so the true motives of those I dated became clear and by just sticking to my guns I met a wonderful man who respected my decision lovingly. We have now been married for 10 years!! I know your pain, your sorrow and your anger because I have been there too. Please know that you are a wonderful young lady who deserves so much more and I know that you will find it if you continue to stay true to yourself. Many warm hugs of comfort and understanding.

Cindy :(

Laurie said...

Oh Allison, I'm so very sorry to hear this. I know because I've been there how sad and betrayed you feel, and how much it hurts to break up with someone. I know you'll be strong, heal, and enjoy your youth and freedom until you eventually move on to someone who treats you with the love and respect you deserve. I look forward to your return to blogging when you feel up to it.

Hugs!

a little bit vintage said...

Hey Allison...SO sorry to hear your news. I've been down that road before and I can tell you that I'm in SUCH a better place now than I was then. Now, I've been married to the love of my life and best friend for 6 1/2 years, with a beautiful daughter who is our greatest joy and another little one on the way. I would never have met my hubby if it wasn't for that situation so I thank God everyday for it. :) Trust me, you WILL move past this and you WILL be a better, stronger person for it. :) Hang in there...I know it's tough right now, but try to see the light at the end of the tunnel...it's there. :) You're in my prayers! Have a Merry, Merry Christmas!

Hugs,
Rachel

Sares said...

Oh no. I have been wondering if you were having troubles still since you were gone so long, I was hoping you were just busy with school. Make sure you make the right decisions for yourself. Hang in there and I hope you have a Merry Christmas Alli!

The French Bear said...

Oh dear sweetie!!! How terrible, the dumb jerk!!! well, don't look back because there is someone out there who is worthy of you!!!! You are a beautiful and loving girl, he does not deserve you!!!
I am sorry I didn't know sooner, I thought something was up but I didn't want to pry.... I do hope you are okay, big hugs!!!!!!
Try to have a happy holiday, will you be with family or friends?
I wish you lots of happier times and love and friendship!!!!
Hugs,
Margaret B

Jill said...

Huge hugs to you Allison. I have been through this also and actually can say now I am glad that it happened because my life is so much better! God Bless you and I hope that you are able to enjoy Christmas with your family & good friends.
Jill

vintage girl at heart said...

I have been wondering about you girl.. so sorry to hear about Taylor and>>>>
Whatever you do.. DO nOt tAKe HIM BACK!!!! YOU deserve so much more than that!!!!
Merry Christmas and A New year filled with all things postive for YOU!!!!

xinex said...

I am so sorry to hear that, Alli, but stay strong. You deserve much better and you'll find him. Enjoy the holidays...Christine

NEEDLEWINGS said...

I am sure many of us can relate at one time or another, but that just means that there is someone better for you out there. Love your blog, so very beautiful!

Janie's World said...

Allison, I'm so sorry to hear what has happened to you. But the advice given above is good and you just need to close that door and move on (change your phone number). Embrace your new situation, keep positive, and give thanks to God that you found this out now instead of later. Good things will happen for you. In pain there is growth. Keep yourself busy and experience new fun things.

Cori G. said...

Oh Allison I'm so sorry and I can definitely relate. Be strong my friend and I'll keep you in my prayers.

xoxo Cori

Wsprsweetly Of Cottages said...

Sweetheart..you will find your way out of this. I have faith in you and in your judgement...whatever you decide. With your sweet face you will have tons of opportunities! Take my word for it!
Happy Holidays to you, and many hugs!
Mona

The Quintessential Magpie said...

Oh, Allison, I'm so sorry! I've been there in the past, many years ago, and I still remember it. I hope that you feel better soon and will be back with us on the blogging circuit. I'm taking a little break right now, but I will be back after the first of the year.

In the mean time, sending you big hugs...

XO,

Sheila

LADY JANE'S EMPORIUM said...

Allison...You are a beautiful young lady and do not need or deserve that ...move on in your life...don't look back...YOU will be stronger for it! I understand a cheating man....IF you ever need to talk...just e-mail me!
Huds!

Karen said...

Allison.
We miss you too, and know you'll be back after you work through this difficult time.
I'm sorry you have to go through this.
Please remember the old saying "Time heals all wounds." It really does. Trust me?
You are a beautiful fun girl, and there is someone out there right now, just waiting to bump into you. You'll see.
As for Taylor - just don't go there. Call it finished. If he did it once, it'll always be in the back of your mind that he'll do it again. And you don't need that.
I think you need to get busy on a new project! Then share it with all of us!
Chin up! Big hugs!
Karen

Lisa said...

Welcome back to Blogland Allison. It's good that you took that time to readjust your life. Come back and bring your sunshine to the Blog world and jump into some new projects! Be strong (and don't let him back) Move onwards and upwards. Good things are in store for you in 2010!
Happy New Year Dear!
Lisa

Laura Ingalls Gunn said...

I am so very sorry that this happened to you. Be strong. Someone better is right around the corner. This time next year you will be saying "Why did I waste all that time with him?"

Dawn said...

Allison, I just noticed this post as I was commenting on your trip. Move forward with your head held high. I know the new year will bring you good things! Can't wait to see you posting more again!
Hugs,
Dawn

Susie Q said...

Oh sweetie...I am so sorry!
But you are strong and smart and beautiful and when you need to talk, we will all be here for you. I have been through this with several friends and you know what? You will be just fine! I know that...and we will all be here for you!
Love,
Sue

Barbara Jean said...

Allison,
I am so sorry to hear of recent happenings
I wondered when i saw no pics of him on your blog now.

I have missed you too, and hope you will be able to get back in the loop. Our support here in blogland will certainly help, but it is a process whenever we have to work through one of life's heartaches.

We all love you!!

Blessings

Barbara jean
PS Your trip looked like great fun.

Vintage Roses said...

OMG I just read your blog post. So sorry...I went thru something similar recently. I really feel your pain sweetie. Take care ok.

Dena said...

Hi Allison,

I'm playing catch up on blog visiting and I was shocked to read this. I'm so sorry sweetie. There waits a special man out there just for you and when you are ready and the time is just right, he'll be there. In the meantime, endulge in YOU. Celebrate the fabulous young lady that you are, because hon you are absolutely beautiful.

Hugs,
Dena

Jodes said...

my precious dink. love will find you. don't close your heart. you will heal and prince charming will come.

i love you.
tia XOXOXO